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Are you looking for Jewish clergy for your upcoming wedding or baby naming? Seeking help on your journey to conversion? If you’re looking for guidance with a lifecycle event or to find inclusive Jewish events and meet other interfaith couples at your life stage, we’re here to help you. We are thrilled to have several Rukin Rabbinic Fellows, Rabbi Melissa Buyer-Witman, Rabbi Emily Cohen, Rabbi Andy Kahn, Rabbi Alexis Pinsky, and Rabbi Yael Rapport here in New York to support you.

Rabbi Melissa, Rabbi Emily, Rabbi Andy, Rabbi Alexis, Rabbi Yael and our other Rukin Fellows throughout the U.S. and Canada offer programming for interfaith/intercultural couples and families to discuss relevant issues. We hope you’ll join them for programs and workshops, which include opportunities to reflect on your backgrounds, differences and similarities and discuss your hopes, plans and dreams for the future. They are also available for one-on-one consultations and to refer you to local Jewish clergy and organizations that welcome interfaith/intercultural couples and families. Contact Rabbi Melissa at rabbimelissa@18doors.org, Rabbi Emily at rabbiemilycohen@18doors.org, Rabbi Andy at rabbiandy@18doors.org, Rabbi Alexis at rabbialexis@18doors.org, and Rabbi Yael at rabbiyael@18doors.org.

Our Events


Jun 01

What is Jewish Identity? A Shavuot Conversation for Interfaith Couples (New York) – Online

June 1 @ 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm EDT
What does it mean to be part of the Jewish people/community today if you yourself are not Jewish? Join Rabbi Emily Cohen from 18Doors and other interfaith couples for a thought-provoking conversation sparked by the interfaith storyline of The Book of Ruth, traditionally read on Shavuot.
Jun 06

Couples & Conversation (National) – Online

June 6 @ 7:30 pm - 8:30 pm EDT
Being part of an interfaith/Jew-ish/multi-faith/however-you-define-yourself couple can be challenging, but you don’t need to find the answers alone. This online workshop offers a safe environment to work on creating your religious/cultural lives together. It is intended for seriously dating, engaged, and newly married couples.
Jun 06

Couples & Conversation (Upper East Side, New York) – Online

June 6 @ 8:00 pm - 9:00 pm EDT
Being part of an interfaith/Jew-ish/multi-faith/however-you-define-yourself couple can be challenging, but you don’t need to find the answers alone. This online workshop offers a safe environment to work on creating your religious/cultural lives together. It is intended for seriously dating, engaged, and newly married couples on the Upper East Side, New York.
Jul 14

Couples & Conversation (National) – Online

July 14 @ 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm CDT
Being part of an interfaith/Jew-ish/multi-faith/however-you-define-yourself couple can be challenging, but you don’t need to find the answers alone. This online workshop offers a safe environment to work on creating your religious/cultural lives together. It is intended for seriously dating, engaged, and newly married couples.

Meet Rabbi Melissa Buyer-Witman – Rukin Rabbinic Fellow

Rabbi Melissa Buyer-Witman is the Director of Lifelong Learning at Temple Israel of the City of New York. She received her a M.A. in Hebrew Letters, Jewish Education and Rabbinic Ordination from HUC-JIR, the Reform Movment’s Seminary, in Los Angeles. She has been on the cutting edge of innovative educational programs for nearly 18 years. Additionally, she serves as an active member of the clergy team that makes living and learning Judaism relevant and meaningful for Jews and those who love them. In addition to her role at Temple Israel, Rabbi Buyer-Witman is the Editor for the CCAR’s Mishkan HaNefesh for Youth and serves as the Dean of faculty for the URJ’s Crane Lake and Eisner Camps.

Rabbi Buyer-Witman comes from a loving family that includes members of multiple faith traditions. Her journey to and through the rabbinate ultimately lead her to the Rukin Rabbinic Fellowship, where she will continue to harness her passion to create inclusive communities that see diversity as a blessing.

Meet Rabbi Emily Cohen – Rukin Rabbinic Fellow

Rabbi Emily Cohen is the rabbi of West End Synagogue: a Reconstructionist community on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. She graduated in 2018 from the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College in Philadelphia and prior to joining West End spent two years as the Jewish Emergent Network Rabbinic Resident with Lab/Shul in New York City. An artist from an early age, Rabbi Emily’s “side projects” have included Passover parodies (“The Hamilton Haggadah”), a podcast (“Jew Too? Tales of the Mixed Multitude”) and a great deal of Jewish music. She also writes regularly for Alma.

Rabbi Emily is part of the growing population of American Jews raised by one Jewish parent and one non-Jewish parent. Her interfaith roots lead her to look always to the edges of Jewish community and to center the voices that are least heard.

Meet Rabbi Andy Kahn – Rukin Rabbinic Fellow

Andy Kahn is the assistant Rabbi at Temple Emanu-El in New York City. He grew up in Tacoma, Washington, attended Kenyon College for his BA. He went to Queen’s University and Jewish Theological Seminary for graduate school, and was ordained by HUC-JIR, the Reform Movement’s Seminary, in New York in 2018. He is excited to work with 18Doors to help create a Jewish world that embraces people of all backgrounds, and is willing to both enrich and be enriched by all who seek a connection to Judaism, regardless of their Jewish status.

Alexis Pinsky

Meet Rabbi Alexis Pinsky – Rukin Rabbinic Fellow

Rabbi Alexis Pinsky was ordained from the N.Y. campus of the Hebrew Union College’s Jewish Institute of Religion and is a member of the Central Conference of American Rabbis.

She has most recently served as the Associate Rabbi/Educator at B’ShERT (Beth Shalom v’Emeth Reform Temple) in Brooklyn, N.Y. She previously served as Associate Rabbi at the historic Touro Synagogue as the Musical and Liturgical Clergy in Residence, and as Assistant Rabbi at Congregation Gates of Prayer in Metairie, LA, where she focused on outreach and engagement to young families and young adults. Rabbi Pinsky is passionate about connecting others to the richness and beauty of the Jewish tradition. She believes that cultivating sacred ritual moments, music and formal and informal Jewish education is essential in working toward a more just world.

Meet Rabbi Yael Rapport – Rukin Rabbinic Fellow

Rabbi Yael Rapport is the Associate Rabbi at Congregation Beit Simchat Torah – The LGBTQ Synagogue (CBT) of New York City. Prior to her work at CBST, she served as a Chaplain Resident in the Mount Sinai Health System focusing on inpatient and outpatient oncology and the Gender Affirmation Surgical Unit. Her passions include visual art, new food traditions, and she is certified as a yoga teacher.